belanja belanji buat baby..

Sebagai bumil yang lagi cuti di rumah, apa lagi yang lebih nyenengin selain belanja? Terutama belanja buat baby ya *woy senam hamil sama jalan kaki jangan lupaaa..* :p. Sebenernya selama di Balikpapan udah nyicil beli beberapa barang bayi sih gara-garanya abis ikut kelas AIMI trus dapet voucher belanja di baby shop sebesar seratus ribu. Mayaaannn. Sama nyobain babyshop yang ditemuin pas lagi ikutan kelas AIMI itu.
Nah dari semingguan kemaren di rumah, tepatnya hari Sabtu nyampe rumah, hari Minggu langsung niat hunting ke toko bayi yang direkomendasi sama Tika yang barusan aja lahiran sama si Ayah, Papah dan Mamah. Nama tokonya My Baby Shop di daerah Gajahmada, Semarang. Tokonya ketemu eh kok ternyata tutup.

Daripada pulang dengan tangan hampa marilah kita iseng *judulnya sih iseng tapi beli-beli juga disana* main ke Nagatomi. Udah denger-denger sih kalo disini harganya agak lebih mahal daripada toko bayi biasa. Iya lah tokonya bagus gitu -_-. Tempatnya bagus, nyaman macem supermarket gitu dengan barang-barang macam stroller, high chair, carseat, baby box dipajang di pojokan.

Abis dari Nagatomi, belanja-belanja apa yang tampaknya gak biasa (baca: lucu-lucu) lanjutlah kita ke swalayan deket rumah, bukaaaann.. bukan Alfamart atau Indomaret tapi ADA, sekalian belanja sayur sekalian cek-cek bagian bayinya. Mayan lah disini dapet set baju-baju murah.
Dalam sehari udah dua tempat tuh, hari Senin-nya mumpung pesawat si Ayah masih tar sore marilah kita menuju ke My Baby Shop sama si Ayah sama Papah. Aduh nyenengin banget disini barangnya banyak dan mayan lengkap. Dan yang paling penting bisa nodong diskon sama yang punya toko secara belanjanya udah menembus angka juta :D.

Di tiga toko tadi masih ada beberapa barang yang belum kebeli, karena ya belanja bayi itu dikit-dikit tapi kok ya banyak juga butuhnya jadi ada aja yang kelupaan. Setelah minta rekomendasi toko bayi lain di Semarang ke madam Kunti dan Amel dapetlah nama Toko Sejati Baby Shop. Meluncurlah kita kesana hari Sabtu. Tokonya besar dan lengkap, pantesan anak-anak Kosbin suka belanja kesana buat baby mereka :D.
Jadi total belanja-belanji selama tiga hari dan empat toko berdasarkan daftar perlengkapan ibu dan bayi colongan dari Nagatomi adalah sebagai berikut:

Pakaian Bayi
Popok kain  (kayaknya beli 12 deh, ini Mamah yang milih :p)
Gurita  (6 aja, Mamah yang ngerti soal ginian)
Bedong  (6 sebenernya judulnya sih baby blanket tipis gitu tapi bisa dipake bedong)
Baju tangan buntung  (beli 6)
Baju tangan pendek  (beli 6)
Baju tangan panjang  (lebih dari 6, tapi ukurannya variasi gede kecil)
Jumper  (Carter’s 3-6m yang 5 in 1 beli 2 karena emaknya gemes liatnya :D, sama Libby agak gede ukurannya beli 3)
Celana pendek  (beli 6)
Celana pop  (beli 6)
Celana panjang/tutup kaki  (@ 3 buah)
Singlet  (beli 4 gara-gara harus beli set padahal isinya cuma 4, lagian bajunya udah banyak juga sih)
Sarung tangan kaki  (beli warna-warni 7 set, biar pas seminggu kata Ayahnya :D)
Topi  (beli 2)
Piyama  (anak bayi perlu piyama juga ya?)
Mantel/baju hangat  (dibeliin selimut tutup kepala aja 2 buah, nanti biar dikekep yang gendongin aja biar anget)
Diapers  (beli merk Nepia isi 84, gak ngerti bagus apa nggak tapi di toko bayi pada jual ini, kita tes dulu cocok apa nggaknya ke si bayi)
Gendongan kain  (si Mamah beli jarik kain tradisional 2 buah, emaknya udah nyicil Bobita Wrap biru tapi belum mulai belajar ngiketnya, hihihi)
Sapu tangan  (hmm.. nggak beli, udah banyak tisu sama kain-kain ya)
Slaber  (beli 7)

Perlengkapan tidur
Bantal guling  (1 set aja, sama bantal peyang merk Kuku 1 gak tau kepake apa nggak)
Sarung bantal guling  (2 set sama ada 1 set yang udah nyambung sama pas beli bantal gulingnya)
Perlak  (beli 1)
Selimut  (Carter’s 2, asli lembut dan lucu banget sama yang Carter's tipis 5)
Kelambu  (alias kojong kalo bahasa gaulnya, aku nyebutnya tudung saji, beli 1 :p)
Box baby  (di toko keempat baru dapet, merk Baby Does warna biru abu-abu)
Kasur  (beli 1 aja ya buat ngisi baby box nya)
Seprei  (beli 1 set, plus dapet seprei juga nyatu sama pembelian kasurnya)

Perlengkapan mandi dan kesehatan
Handuk  (beli 2)
Waslap  (beli 3, mayan dapet Lemonde diskonan :D)
Bak mandi  (beli inflatable pilihan si Ayah sama Papah, eh setelah dicek kok untuk bayi setelah 6 bulan, iki piyeee…)
Toilettries  (1 set Johnson’s aja yang praktis)
Sisir  (1 set merk Kuku)
Gunting kuku  (merk Kuku)
Peniti (merk Pigeon, lucu gitu bentuknya hewan)
Cotton bud  (dikit dulu aja nanti beli lagi kalo abis)
Kapas  (kapas bulet 2 bungkus sama kapas biasa setengah kilo 20ribu saja)
Termometer  (merk Chicco warna biru)
Minyak telon  (Huki, keknya minyak telon merk apa aja sama ya baunya)
Tissue basah  (Pure Baby, lumayan buy 2 get 3)
Nappy cream  (belum beli, masih mikir mau Vaseline Petroleum Jelly Baby secara emaknya penggemar Vaseline Pet Jelly, Sudocrem, atau merk lokal aja)
Detergent khusus bayi  (Cussons Baby, pas buy 1 get 2)
Nambahin beli Mothercare Liquid Talc karena banyak yang rekomendasi, jadi bentuknya cream tapi seteah dioleskan efeknya seperti talc (belum nyobain sih), dikuatirkan kalo make talc beneran nanti bisa terhirup.

Buat emaknya
Gurita  (beli 2, si Mamah yang milihin)
Bra menyusui  (Wacoal beli 4, sama nemu yang biasa 2 biji di toko bayi)
Stagen  (beli 1, Mamah juga yang milihin)
Breast pad  (merk Pigeon, beli sekotak isi 66)
Breastpump  (Medela Swing, horeee sesuai impian, beli di My Baby Shop gak sampe 2 juta, di toko lain sampe lebih dari 2,5 juta. Hihihi)
Cooler bag  (Medela City Style, mayan dapet 4 botol Medela kan, males milih-milih merk lain :D)
Stretchmark cream  (berhubung Palmer’s pas habis, nemu Mothercare trus beli oil sama creamnya, lah si creamnya mengandung Paraben. Dasar impulsif. -_-)
Perineal gel  (ini karena ikut kelas hypnobirthing ada pelajaran perineum massage tapi belum beli VCO, jadilah beli ini aja, moga-moga bermanfaat, namanya juga ikhtiar :D) 

Wishlist nya?
Karena essentials nya udah kebeli semua jadi ya wishlist nya barang-barang untuk masa depan kali ya, kayak gini:

Baby bouncer  (kayaknya berguna buat bobok-bobokin baby, tapi yang  penting sih buat nenangin baby kalo lagi ditinggal mandi atau ngapain gitu pas dirumah cuma bedua)
Play gym  (buat stimulasi baby, kata temen yang udah punya baby sih ini)
Steamer  (buat angetin ASIP, ada juga sih yang berpendapat lebih praktis diangetin direndam air hangat)
Sterilizer  (serius belum kepikiran beli ini, males lebih tepatnya padahal kepake banget nantinya)
Botol-botol ASIP  (males banget nyicil buat beli padahal butuhnya biasanya banyak, hahaha)
Car seat  (belum ada mobil saat ini tapi kalo nanti punya mobil berarti kan harus ada car seat ya? *maksa*)
Peralatan MPASI 6 bulan lagi  (macem hand blender, slow cooker, peralatan makan gitu deh, ah tapi masih lamaaaa, belum kepikiran juga :D)
High chair  (atau booster chair, lucu aja gitu liatnya nanti kalo baby nya udah belajar mamam trus duduk disitu)

Nah ya panjang bener postingan kali ini. Maklum lagi gak ada kerjaan, jadwal senam hamil masih besok Kamis, kontrol DSOG masih besok Sabtu. Hahaha.. My baby pas emaknya ngetik ini pinter banget deh posisi kepalanya lagi di bawah, Secara ini udah 36w dan baby masih muter-muter emaknya agak waswas juga.

Sampai jumpa di postingan selanjutnya. :*

my (first) baby

21w3d. My baby (oh yeah i'm still don't know for sure is it a boy or a girl) is being quiet after the-usual-kicking-session-at-night. Like it has been my baby's schedule, my baby will kick again at night until i fall asleep. That's the routine. My belly is getting bigger everyday especially since i've hit fifth month. Amazing to see my then-washboard-abs being rounder and rounder and plumper. Hahahaha.
About the kicks, i first noticed on my trip to Jakarta last month. Exactly at my fourth month. My baby created bubbles inside my belly. At the leftside of my tummy but now kicks are all over it.
Some mornings my baby woke me up. At the other morning my baby slept when i woke. It was always funny for me to find out that when i woke up at my left (that was the best side for pregger to sleep), my baby slept at my leftside of tummy, too.
Yesterday we attended two classes for preggers, lotsa pre-natal and post-natal informations. Just wanted to get prepared before my baby's arrival. I was so glad that my baby's daddy accompanied me and gave his best interest to that classes.
My baby is the best. When other preggers or moms told their stories, their experiences, i'm so thankful that i don't feel any nauseas, cravings, or particular pains through my pregnancy. Oh i think my baby knows that i told this because my baby's kicking right now. Hihihihi. I am so thankful because i can't imagine what will happen if my body became weak from this pregnancy. I simply live alone. My husband an parents don't live in the same city with me. I am so thankful that i can still be independent until this stage of pregnancy.
I am so in love with you, my baby. I don't care whether you will have a "N" or "F" as your first letter of your name. I hope you always okay, healthy, and grows perfectly.
I love you, dear baby. We'll see you at the next visit to obsgyn in a couple weeks. :')

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decision.. decision..

There were times when we had to make decisions. Small or big they came with their consequences. I did made one recently. Impulsively. Or that was what i think for now. I could blame my hormones, my panickness, my irrational fear at the time i made that decision, but then again, it was me the one who made the decision. None other.
I did think that was a good decision considering what i experienced lately, but yes i hadn't rechecked what consequences followed. Like when we made a SWOT comparisons, i had to do that first.
I did regret my decision that time. But it was what i want. I might see what i couldnt have and couldnt reach right now. I might see that decision separated me from my comfort zone. I might see all of that memories kept me from living this decision. Oh have i told you that i'm conservative? It was always hard for me to be shaken off my comfort zone. I bet almost everyone feels the same.
Moral of my own story: do my SWOT, check and recheck every options, consider every consequences that may come up. After all, always believe that every path is what God's give us for the best.

P.s.: pardon my grammar :D

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innalillahi..

Gak kebayang kalo jadi istrinya Uje. Kehilangan suami begitu mendadak. Anak-anak masih kecil. Kalo boleh milih, gw duluan aja yang meninggal. Tapi bukankah itu malah egois gak mau menjadi pihak yang ditinggalkan dan sedih?

Innalillahi wainnailaihi rajiun.
Semoga Allah memberi tempat terbaik bagi Uje dan keikhlasan bagi yang ditinggalkan. Aamin.

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Di Sebuah Ruang Praktek Dokter

Doctor (D) and Me (Me)
D : Mabok (mual) nggak?
M : Nggak. Laper sih iya.
D : Maunya hamil apa nggak?
M : Maunya sih iya aja *nyengir*
D : Coba, hamil nggak ya *gerakin alat usg* Yak hamil!
M : Yang mana gak keliatan?
D : Gak keliatan ya? Ini yang bulet kecil ini *tunjuk buletan keciiiillll banget*
M : Hoooo iya ya ya
D : Nah abis ini pasti kamu mabok. Selamat ya.
M : *senyum senyum*
Suatu malam di ruang praktek dokter kandungan di Balikpapan. :')

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Five Years

Today July 8,2012. Yesterday was July 7,2012 we celebrated our togetherness for five years and tomorrow July 9,2012 we will celebrate our first anniversary of marriage. Hihihihi.
It was all started with our friendship in STAN. We were classmate when we were junior. With others we had a close friendship. We separated on sophomore but we still be bestfriend. At July 7,2007 you asked me to be your girlfriend. I said let's gave it a try.
I could still remember that night. Half an hour to midnight. On a saturday night. After watched accoustic in Plasma. Oh yes you were wearing that brown shirt that last week i told you to put it off. Hahaha. Funny i could remember that.
We celebrated our first anniversary in Dufan all day long. We graduated and met our parents in JCC. We handled that long distance relationship until we got ourselves moved to Balikpapan and Bontang. And after our third anniversary we planned to get married.
That was a long road. At our fourth anniversary July 7,2011 we were sat together practiced our wedding rehearsal. Hahahaha. On the next day,that was a year ago, we had siraman and midodareni. That was a long road.
I never know that you would be my husband. I never know that you would be my boyfriend at first place either. This was God's plan. Never been a coincidence. I never know what future wait for us ahead. But for sure that will always be our best.
Happy anniversary, dear Helmi Zus Rizal.
I love you.

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My Biggest Achievement: Pendakian Umum Stapala - Gunung Gede 2007

Almost five years from that days and i still can remember those moments, those greatest feelings. Excitement. I'm far from professional, found that would be interesting back then. Pendakian Umum Stapala 2007. Enrolled weeks before with one of my girl, Eka.

July 13-15, 2007. We departed from campus at July 13 night. My then-boyfriend-now-husband accompanied me until the truck brought us to Cibodas. Btw, at that time we're dating for 6 days. Hahaha. I and Eka on tenth team if i'm not mistaken, with 8 other guys. I can hardly remember their names. So sorry.

Okay i'll try. Ten of us. Eka, Mas Harvi, Mas Iqram, Bongkrek, a junior wore big coat :D, a senior from Bea Cukai taking a lot pictures of us -some photos here taken from his camera-, Mas Nasri ( or Natsir? ), and two other guys. Aaahhhh i'm so sorry can't remember them well now.

That experience surely my biggest achievement. Hey i was climbing a mountain. Hahaha. We walked at night in super cold temperature. We mustn't sleep to prevent hypotermia. We took rest for several times. We crossed a hot water river or things like that. Hihihi. We had breakfast together. I still can visualized the place in my mind now.

At noon we reached the top of Gunung Gede. It felt, "wow!". Speechless. Yes i know everyone can climb Gunung Gede for it's a national park, but having the idea i'm on the top of it still amusing. Hahahaha. Then we went down to Alun-Alun Surya Kencana. Edelweiss's land.

We set a tent there. Spent the night. Oh yeah the temperature still biting but i didn't remember anything. Guess i slept very well that night :). In the morning we took a lot of picture near edelweiss. Such a beautiful place. You can't get that close to that flower before climbed a mountain. For sure, because we were prohibited to bring edelweiss.

Then we went down, through the paths we used to went up. Taking pictures. Rested on a small river and went to a waterfall. We made to Cibodas at night and arrived in campus at midnight. My cellphone were dead so my boyfriend couldn't picked me up. Hahaha. He wanted to picked me up when i arrived. Ah such memories.

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